Yesterday Tuesday July 20th I received a message from my father’s mother Flora, that Saturday July 24th is an excellent day to begin doing the Feelings ritual
This experience was a new one for me. I did speak about her in my audio book Rex Lassalle & The Alchemy of TIME. It is through my daily use of Young Living Oils that I met her.
Yes you are reading that totally correct…Young Living Essential Oils created the context for me to meet my father’s mother who I never met or saw a photo of as she died when my father was four years old.
Here are some stories from friends who have done it over the years.
I have realized over the last few years that communicating about her creates a lot of awkwardness for many people including family members. Be that as it is, as my father would say; “that is their problem, you have to do what you have to do and experience what you are experiencing and have to experience.”
For Flora to show up, giving me such instructions about these oils, this is a big door that is opening for other possibilities of connecting with life and its many domains and sources of knowledge. I sent emails and text messages to many friends and students who use Young Living oils that it is a good time to begin doing it.
What does the Feelings Kit Ritual do?
This is a profound question, my observations from having done it quite a number of times over the last eleven years that it is totally subjective along with magical.
I have also observed that it is the same with people I know who have done it.
In the past when friends and students have shared some very difficult awkward situations where there is no step by step approach to resolve their present challenging circumstance. I have suggested for them to do it. A major shift always happens.
Here are some stories from friends who have done it over the years.
There was a lady in America who was having much conflict with her in laws after her divorced husband died. The dispute was linked with the daughters that they had. It concerned very different approaches that her in laws had reference inheritance for their daughters. She told me that the conflict was going on for many months with endless frustration and bitter exchanges.
That was her motivation for doing it. Let me be absolutely clear with readers, there were no guarantees I gave her about doing the Ritual. All I said is that a shift will occur in her life rather than that situation will resolve.
Well, a little over two weeks into the Ritual, that issue with the in laws were resolved with a happy ending. She did not mention this when we chatted, as it was not her core focus. She sold her house. This was a time in America where the selling of homes in the state where she lived was very sluggish.
There was an Italian lady who had a very stressful life situation, her mother was in her late seventies and recently had a stroke. There was a lot of conflict between her mother and her siblings, some of this stretched back more than two decades. Her work situation was stressful as there was a lot of office politics happening where she worked. She had a younger brother who had some health issues where he was fairly dependent on her for assistance.
Stressed out to the max. She did the Ritual every night, as her mornings were hectic, as she had to leave early to beat the traffic to get to work on time.
After ten days into the ritual, uncles and aunts that had not visited her mother for over twenty years came to the house to see her mother. The dynamics at the office changed and the person who was creating a lot of conflict with her was sent to another department. Her brother’s sense of independence shifted and he was less dependent on her.
Then there was a gentleman who did it as things in his life had a sense of stagnation especially emotionally. About a week into the Ritual his lady friend informed him that she had a new partner. Of course this was a shock to him. I suggested to him that he continue, as it will support his processing that pain, which it did. The reality is that he was in a situation that was false and going nowhere, the Feelings Ritual opened a way to walk a new path honouring his authenticity.
A few years ago I was given notice that my landlady needed to use the apartment where I was living. This meant having to find a new apartment within three months. I decided to do the Feelings ritual and see what will occur.
By the way, although that was on my mind many things shifted with my writing along with new clients connecting with my work. Cut a long story short, one story up from where I lived an apartment became available, this happened in the last week of the Ritual. This was a better apartment than the one where I was, plus there were symbols and signs of my parents in this new apartment. That is another story for another time about those symbols and signs.